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		<title>3 Keys to Transforming Your Relationship with Money</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Jan 2011 22:39:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;d rather listen to the audio of this post, click below to listen! I want to ask you a blunt question today, namely, “If money was your friend, what would it say about you?” I know this may seem like an odd question, but I really want you take a moment and think about [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p>If you&#8217;d rather listen to the audio of this post, click below to listen!<br />
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<p><a href="http://www.brilliancemastery.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/key1.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-813" title="key1" src="http://www.brilliancemastery.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/key1.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="167" /></a>I want to ask you a blunt question today, namely, “If money was your friend, what would it say about you?”</p>
<p>I know this may seem like an odd question, but I really want you take a moment and think about it because the answer means <em>everything </em>as it relates to your business success this year.</p>
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<p><strong>Would money describe you as a caring and compassionate partner, one who is fully committed to her growth and sustainability?</strong> Or would it have more complaints than praises about you, asking:</p>
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<p><em>“Why do you only call me when you need something?”</em></p>
<p><em>“Why are you so ashamed of me that you refuse to deal with our issues in an open, honest and forthright way?” or</em></p>
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<p><em>“Why are you so selfish with me that you lock me up like a prisoner and keep me away from the rest of the world?”</em></p>
<p>If you decide you’ve been energetically giving your money the cold shoulder somehow, it’s time to take some immediate action to bring confidence, clarity and your brilliance to how you handle your money and abundance. This is especially important if you are committed to taking your business to new levels of financial prosperity this year.</p>
<p>Remember, your business will only grow as big as you grow yourself.  Therefore, <strong>it’s critical that you do whatever it takes to make sure your relationship with money is healthy, supportive and primed for lasting growth. </strong></p>
<p>Otherwise your lack of clarity and struggles in this area will sabotage your cash flow every single time.  You’ll ramp up your marketing and start making more money only to see it flow out the door faster than ever.    You’ll never truly get the revenue you deserve from your clients because of that pesky voice that says, “You’re not worth that much” or “You don’t deserve that much”.  And of course you’ll take ride after ride on the cash-flow rollercoaster until you’re physically sick, exhausted and ready to call it quits for good.</p>
<p>I don’t want to see that happen to you or your business! Fortunately, the tools to make a difference are right at your fingertips. Put the following 3 keys into action and you’ll be well on your way to transforming your relationship with money as we go into the New Year:</p>
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<p><strong>Key #1 – Give Loving Attention to Your Money</strong></p>
<p>Like any good friend, we need to pay attention to our money regularly. As one of my mentors, Kendall Summerhawk, likes to say money loves attention. <strong>Money will get it your attention one way or the other, whether positive or negative. </strong>The simple act of tracking your income on a <strong>daily </strong>basis is a great step to shift your relationship with money.</p>
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<p><strong>Key #2 – Stop Your Money Leaks</strong></p>
<p>Think of money as simply a form of energy that flows and circulates in the form of green paper. The more we can focus our energy and attention, the more powerfully we can direct it towards creating and receiving abundance. Things like unpaid bills, uncollected invoices, unopened piles of mail or unfiled paper work nag at our attention and create energetic leaks. When we stop the energetic drains we tolerate around us, our sense of abundance grows and manifests.</p>
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<p><strong>Key #3 &#8211; Climb on Your Own White Horse</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://www.brilliancemastery.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/whitehorse.jpg"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-811" title="whitehorse" src="http://www.brilliancemastery.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/whitehorse.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="169" /></a>The brilliant entrepreneur shows up as a spiritual grown up around her money, not the little girl who waits and hopes for somebody else to come along on the big white horse to rescueher. Educate yourself and get whatever support you need. Realize it’s time to saddle up and that you are the only one who can take charge of your life.</p>
<p>So instead of beating yourself up or sticking your head in the sand, I encourage you today to get honest about your relationship with money.  Start taking the steps necessary to iron out the areas where you aren’t feeling confident or clear so you can create space for abundance and total prosperity.   Show the Universe you mean business and watch 2011 become your best fiscal year yet!</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.brilliancemastery.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/astra-journal1.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-826" title="astra-journal1" src="http://www.brilliancemastery.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/astra-journal1.jpg" alt="" width="171" height="171" /></a>Step Into Your Brilliance</strong></p>
<p>Stop to review the state of your current relationship with money and your feelings about your finances in general. Feel whether your energy feels expanded or contracted. Brainstorm a list of any area where you feel like your relationship with money and finances is not fully in alignment and support of your brilliance.</p>
<p>Be specific. Some examples could include seeing where you have bills that need to be paid, revenue to collect from others or your filing system needs to be uplevelled. Choose the area that feels most stuck for you and block off 15 minutes this week to focus on taking care of that specific situation.</p>
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		<title>Women Entrepreneurs: The Power of Inner Confidence</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 14:39:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Carolyn</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever encountered the kind of person to whom you are immediately drawn like a magnet, even though that person is a complete stranger?   You have probably said to yourself, &#8220;I don’t know what they have, but I want to find out more about them.&#8221; That person exudes personal confidence, and who wouldn’t want [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><p>Have you ever encountered the kind of person to whom you are immediately drawn like a magnet, even though that person is a complete stranger?   You have probably said to yourself, &#8220;I don’t know what they have, but I want to find out more about them.&#8221;</p>
<p>That person exudes personal confidence, and who wouldn’t want a piece of that?</p>
<p>How do you harness that energy?  Does it just come naturally for some people, or is it a learned behavior?  Well, I think it’s both.  It is definitely possible to make that internal connection that is attractive and intriguing to your prospective clients.  It is possible to get to a place where you’re no longer selling…you’re<em> attracting</em> new clients.</p>
<p>With the Six-Step Mastery Program process that I’ve created, you will have your emotional housekeeping done so you’re not being held back by any limiting beliefs or plaguing thoughts from your inner critic.</p>
<p>Isn’t that great? What an exciting place to be!</p>
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